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Sex Positive and Body Positive educational place. Includes information about different relationships, genders, sexuality, sexual preferences, safety precautions and everything else that could pertain in the education of sex. Accepting of all walks of life.
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We’ve seen it over and over. When voters are in the know, they vote pro-choice. REBLOG to show your friends that you’re a pro-choice voter, and encourage them use our 2014 Voter Guide to find out where the candidates stand.

I’m blogging about abortion rights activism today! One way to support reproductive rights is to vote for candidates who have demonstrated a pro-choice stance. By supporting pro-choice candidates, we not only gain greater support in the political field, we send the message to future candidates that the road to their office is defending our rights.

Anti-Choice Legislature in Arkansas and what it means to you.

By now you may have heard that Arkansas is receiving an onslaught of proposed bills and new laws that limit people’s reproductive choices. These are just a few of those laws and bills:

               * New Law, currently in affect: a ban on abortion after 20 weeks except in cases of rape, incest, or in saving the parent’s life

               * New Law, not yet in affect: a ban on abortion after 12 weeks except in the cases of rape, incest, or in saving the parent’s life.

               * New Bill (SB1157): Amending the law regarding consent to abortion. Although we don’t know what it all entails yet this usually  requires you to look at an ultrasound or have a doctor describe an ultrasound before an abortion is preformed. If the pregnancy is early enough this may require a transvaginal ultrasound.

               * New Bill (SB913): This requires that you take both doses of the abortion pill in the clinic with the doctor there. Usually you take one in clinic and take the other at home as you have to wait 3 days before taking the other pill. This would really affect people who had to travel to get the procedure done. This also allows the “father” and “maternal grandparents” to sue the doctor.

               * New Bill ( HB276): Amending the law regarding waiting periods for abortions. Again, we don’t know the details but this would largely affect those who had to travel or those close to the cut off date.

               * New Bill (HB1098): this changes the definition of child under the child maltreatment act to from the time a fetal heartbeat can be detected to 18 years of age. That means that if a doctor thinks that a pregnant person is somehow abusing the fetus they could file a report.

               * New Bill (SB913): this bans telemed abortions, abortions where the doctor is not physically in the room when the abortion pill is administered, but watches remotely and offers virtual counseling.

               * New Bill (HB1899): Would allow doctors and pharmacists to refuse you birth control based on their moral beliefs

               * New Bill (SB818): Would defund Planned Parenthood

Now what does this all mean to people in Arkansas? This could mean that one or more of the Planned Parenthood clinics would have to shut down or reduce programs which could leave people without affordable birth control, STI testing, genital infection testing, infection treatment, wellness exams, prenatal care, post natal care, free condoms, pregnancy tests, the morning after pill, and the abortion pill. If they try to get an abortion or self abort they could possibly be charged with child abuse. They would only be able to get the abortion pill if they are able to go to the clinic twice in 4 days. They would only be able to get a surgical abortion before 12 weeks. This also means that if the parent’s life isn’t in immediate danger they may be forced to carry a dead or non-viable fetus to term which can cause several health problems and be incredibly traumatic.

What does that mean to you? If any or all of these bills are made into laws this sets a precedence. If your state or wherever you live sees Arkansas accomplish all this they may want to start passing other laws. Right now North Dakota Senate just passed a 6-week abortion ban bill. Now many of you may be pointing out that many of these laws are unconstitutional and do go against federal law. This is true, a state Judge in Idaho just struck down a 20-week abortion ban as unconstitutional. However, they are planning to appeal this and take it all the way to the Supreme Court. Not only is this a time and money consuming procedure if Arkansas were to do this, but also until this happens some of these laws are already in affect or going into affect. Also, these people want to take it to the Supreme Court so that they can call into question Roe vs. Wade and try to get it overturned. That’s the main thing, they want abortion to be illegal on a federal level. This is scary considering 20 states have laws that restrict abortion.

Now, what can you do about this? If you live in Arkansas, or any state for that matter, there are a few things you can do.

               1. Educate yourself. Look into what your local laws are, and what the bills are that are coming up. Really look into what they say. Educate yourself on what abortion is, what it does, and why it is used. There are a lot of myths out there, so I’m going to be spreading some posts around to help you.

               2. Talk about it. To everyone! Reblog posts or make posts on social networking sites, talk about it in school or at work. Tell people what’s going on and what they can do.

               3. Write to newspapers and magazines. Write to as many groups as you can to tell them where you stand. Not only does your voice get heard, it encourages others to speak up as well

               4. Call or email your local government. Many people have websites you can comment on, or emails and numbers available. Research who your local representatives are and tell them how you feel.

               5. Make petitions, fliers, and protest. Make a petition on line or on paper and get signatures of people who support your cause. Take the information you learned about and make pamphlets or fliers to spread around town and educate others. Many places are holding protests, in Arkansas we’re having one at the Capitol (in Little Rock) March 23rd at 3:00). You are welcome to come show your support even if you don’t live here and maybe it’ll help you figure out what you need to do for your state. If you do live in Arkansas, if you can please go! It’s very important.

               6. Vote. I know a lot of people say voting doesn’t matter, but this is a great example to show it does. Vote for people who aren’t going to do this to you. Research who is voting for these awful bills and spread the word so people know not to vote for them. I’ll be making a post of all of the politicians involved in these bills later.



Arkansas to Increase ‘Conscience’ Protections, Add Telemed Ban
The men in the Arkansas legislature seemed really concerned with making sure people give birth if they’re having sex.

Forget employment, let’s just work on increasing the population instead! And not by the choice of the people!

Planned Parenthood is the ONLY medical resource I have. It was there for me when I got herpes, it was there for me any time I got a vaginal infection, it was there for me for my yearly wellness exam, it was there for me when I needed testing, and it’s there for me to get me my birth control that not only keeps me from getting pregnant (and needing an abortion) it keeps me from having hellish periods that keep me from functioning for half of every month.
They want to take away my only medical resource.
If you live in arkansas (or even if you don’t) here’s what you can do:
Sign this Petition
If you’re near Fayetteville there is a meeting this Friday, 3/15, at 10:00 a.m. at Panera to discuss things we can do. You may see me there so if nothing else just come give FYSE a hug and tell them it’ll all be okay.
Call your representatives!
To find out who your main representatives are: http://capwiz.com/nea/ar/state/main/?state=AR
Here are some house members you can also contact:
Republican Speaker of the House Davy Carter at 501-941-8946
Lampkin, Sheilla E. (D-9) - Member
Email Sheilla.Lampkin@arkansashouse.org Phone 870-723-6449
Lea, Andrea (R-71) - Member
Email andrea.lea@arkansashouse.org Phone 479-967-4922
Leding, Greg (D-86) - Member
Email greg@gregleding.com Phone4 79-966-9201
Malone, Stephanie (R-77) - Member
Email stephanie.malone@arkansashouse.org Phone479-452-4554
Mayberry, Andy (R-27) - Member
Email andymayberry@windstream.net Phone 501-888-3522
Perry, Mark (D-42) - Member
Email mperry@windstream.net Phone 501-982-4561 Fax501-982-0096
Wardlaw, Jeff (D-8) - Member
Email jeff@jeffwardlaw.com Phone 870-226-9501 Fax870-226-9500
Wilkins, Butch (D-59) - Member
Email butch.wilkins@arkansashouse.org Phone 870-972-5503
Word, James L. (D-16) - Member
Email jword@aaasea.org Phone 870-543-6391 Fax870-534-2152
Barnett, Jonathan (R-87) - Non-Voting
Email jonathan.barnett@arkansashouse.org Phone  479-524-6254 Fax 479-524-3222
Biviano, Mark (R-46) - Non-Voting
Email mkbiv@cablelynx.com Phone 501-230-5751
Cozart, Bruce (R-24) - Non-Voting
Email bruce.cozart@arkansashouse.org Phone 501-627-3232 Fax501-760-2578
Dickinson, Jody (D-47) - Non-Voting
REALLY? NO EMAIL? Phone 870-523-8222
Hobbs, Debra M. (R-94) - Non-Voting
Email debra.hobbs@arkansashouse.org Phone 479-636-3982
Jean, Lane (R-2) - Non-Voting
Email l_jean@sbcglobal.net Phone 870-234-5433
McLean, James (D-63) - Non-Voting
Email vote.james.mclean@gmail.com Phone 870-613-0617
Meeks, David (R-70) - Non-Voting
Email David.Meeks@arkansashouse.org Phone 501-277-9340
Thompson, Tommy (D-65) - Non-Voting
Email tt4rep@att.net Phone 501-208-2007 Fax 501-354-6623
Senate Members:
Cecile.Bledsoe@senate.ar.gov, David.Burnett@senate.ar.gov, ronald.caldwell@Senate.ar.gov, lchesterfield@comcast.net, alan.clark@senate.ar.gov, dismang28@gmail.com, Joyce.Elliott@senate.ar.gov, Jake.Files@Senate.ar.gov, Stephanie.Flowers@senate.ar.gov, jim.hendren@senate.ar.gov, bart.hester@senate.ar.gov, jimmy.hickey@senate.ar.gov, Bruce.Holland@senate.ar.gov, Jeremy.Hutchinson@senate.ar.gov, friendsforkeith@gmail.com, Missy.Irvin@senate.ar.gov, David.Johnson@senate.ar.gov, Johnny.Key@senate.ar.gov, bryan.king@senate.ar.gov, Michael.Lamoureux@senate.ar.gov, uvalde.lindsey@senate.ar.gov, bruce.maloch@senate.ar.gov, bobby.pierce@senate.ar.gov, Jason.Rapert@senate.ar.gov, Bill.Sample@senate.ar.gov, davidjamessanders@gmail.com, gary.stubblefield@senate.ar.gov, Larry.Teague@senate.ar.gov, Robert.Thompson@senate.ar.gov, EddieJoe.Williams@senate.ar.gov, woods.arkansas@gmail.com, David.Wyatt@senate.ar.gov
If anyone knows of any other protests or town meetings going on about this let me know and I’ll add it to the list.
Spread this information everyone! This is super important not only to me and everyone in Arkansas but it could also affect you as it sets a prescience and may encourage other places to follow suit. 
More Bills coming our way:
A Bill to defund Planned Parenthood
A Bill that would allow doctors and pharmacists to deny you birth control based on their faith
A Bill to require an ultrasound before abortion
A Bill to require you to take both abortion pills at the clinic and also allow the “father” and maternal “grandparents” to sue the doctor
And a waiting period bill
Here’s the date for the March at the Capitol. Anyone in the Little Rock Area should definitely go:
Saturday, March 23rd at 3 o’clock

28 reasons why Australian’s shouldn’t support Tony Abbott


  1. “The problem with the Australian practice of abortion is that an objectively grave matter has been reduced to a question of the mother’s convenience.”
  2. “If half the effort were put into discouraging teenage promiscuity as goes into preventing teenage speeding, there might be fewer abortions, fewer traumatised young women and fewer dysfunctional families.”
  3. “Why isn’t the fact that 100,000 women choose to end their pregnancies regarded as a national tragedy approaching the scale, say, of Aboriginal life expectancy being 20 years less than that of the general community?”
  4. “Since 1996, contrary to poltical correctness, the Australian parliament has overturned right-to-kill laws and (almost) banned gay marriage. Perhaps a political constituency may even be starting to emerge to ban abortions after 20 weeks. “
  5. “The problem is backyard miscarriages if unscrupulous doctors prescribe these drugs for desperate women. “
  6. “If an application did come to me, I would have to satisfy myself that compelent doctors would administer the drug in safe circumstances to women who had fully considered the alternatives and understood the risks”
  7. “Even if dispossession is taken to mean that government has a higher responsibility to Aborigines than to other Australians, the production of beautiful art and connectedness to the land does not warrant the maintenance of a way of life also characterised by unemployment, substance abuse and domestic violence. If people choose to live in difficult to service places, that’s their business.”
  8. “…we just can’t stop people from being homeless if that’s their choice…”
  9. “I think it would be folly to expect that women will ever dominate or even approach equal representation in a large number of areas simply because their aptitudes, abilities and interests are different for physiological reasons”
  10. TONY JONES: So are you making a case against teaching in indigenous languages? Is that what – I’m trying to get on top of the point you’re making. TONY ABBOTT: Well, I am making that case.
  11. “You don’t have to be a Catholic to be troubled by the current abortion culture”
  12. “…Jesus didn’t say yes to everyone. I mean Jesus knew that there was a place for everything and it is not necessarily everyone’s place to come to Australia.”
  13. “Now, I know that there are some Aboriginal people who aren’t happy with Australia Day. For them it remains Invasion Day. I think a better view is the view of Noel Pearson, who has said that Aboriginal people have much to celebrate in this country’s British Heritage”
  14. “The Government accepts that some 14 and 15-year-olds might prefer that their parents not know about the medical procedures they have had or the prescription drugs they are on. But children should not be presumed to be the best judges of their own long-term interests and should not have the right to go behind their parents’ backs… The real issue here is whether 14 and 15-year-olds can make informed decisions about what is right and wrong for them. And if they don’t have that capacity, should they be allowed to operate in a moral and ethical vacuum?” - On Howard legislation giving parents access data about government benefits provided to their teenagers (for example, young women’s Medicare claims related to contraceptive advice), June 2004.
  15. The point I make in the book is that a society… is surely capable of providing additional recognition to what might be thought of as traditional marriage…. Something akin to a Matrimonial Causes Act marriage ought to be an option for people who would like it.”- On the reintroduction of at fault-divorce, July 2009.
  16. On queer people being members of a Catholic congregation: “…if you’d asked me for advice I would have said to have – adopt a sort of “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy about all of these things…”
  17. On aid to the ‘third world’ funding abortions: “I just think that surely there are higher priorities for Australia than funding things like that.”
  18. On whether a national celibacy campaign would be helpful to counter the rise in teen sexual activity, sexual infections and pregnancies:“I think that it’s very important that we empower people to reject this kind of rampant sensuality.”
  19. “Turn the boats back” -On immigration
  20. “It’s the responsibility of government to try to put policies in place which over time will allow people to improve their situation. But we can’t abolish poverty because poverty in part is a function of individual behaviour. We can’t stop people drinking; we can’t stop people gambling; we can’t stop people having substance problems; we can’t stop people from making mistakes that cause them to be less well-off than they might otherwise be. “
  21. “Western civilisation came to this country in 1788 and I’m proud of that…”
  22. LIZ HAYES: Homosexuality? How do you feel about that? TONY ABBOTT: I’d probably I feel a bit threatened…
  23. LEIGH SALES: What was “threatened” referring to? TONY ABBOTT: Well, there is no doubt that it challenges, if you like, orthodox notions of the right order of things…
  24. “I’d always been against the death penalty but that contemplating the enormity of certain sort of crimes I sometimes thought that some crimes were so hideous that if the punishment were to fit maybe we were left with no alternative but the death penalty.”
  25. “Mr Speaker, we have a bizarre double standard; a bizarre double standard in this country where some-one who kills a pregnant woman’s baby is guilty of murder, but a woman who aborts an unborn baby is simply exercising choice.”
  26. Racism used to be offered as the complete explanation for Aboriginal poverty, alienation and early death. Racism hasn’t disappeared. Still, if racism caused poverty, why hasn’t poverty declined as racism diminished.
  27. “What the housewives of Australia need to understand as they do the ironing is that if they get it done commercially it’s going to go up in price and their own power bills when they switch the iron on are going to go up, every year….”
  28. “I think there does need to be give and take on both sides, and this idea that sex is kind of a woman’s right to absolutely withhold, just as the idea that sex is a man’s right to demand I think they are both they both need to be moderated, so to speak”

(Source: thedawnchorus.wordpress.com)

Have you moved for college? You can re/register to vote in your new location!



You can register to vote the easy way: Just follow the simple steps

  1. Check the box “I am a college student”
  2. Fill out your registration form
  3. Print it out
  4. Drop it in the mail

It only takes a minute! 

Once you have registered get your voter checklist at gottavote.org

Pass on this website to anyone you know who has moved for college or to remind them to register to vote!

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"So while I’m honored to be standing at this podium, it easily could have been any one of you. I’m here because I spoke out."

Sandra Fluke at the Democratic National Convention.

Look. I have nothing at all against Sandra Fluke personally. But nope. It couldn’t have easily been anybody else. 

There are people who speak up ALL THE TIME but no one listens to them because they are black, trans, immigrant, latin@, poor, fat, etc. (unfortunately the list is long). They take big risks to speak up but they do. 

And it saddens me that we have had multiple speakers at the DNC talk specifically about reproductive rights and none of them have been women/people of color. On a larger scale, it bothers the hell out of me that women/people of color are the hardest hit by anti-choice laws/regs and yet WE RARELY SEE THEIR FACES OR HEAR THEIR VOICES. 

This movement and its leaders need to start (really, should already be) asking hard questions starting with: Are we just fighting for reproductive rights or are we fighting for reproductive justice? On nights like tonight, when I see Cecile Richards tweet about her younger-generation doppleganger, “Sandra Fluke speaks for the next generation,” I know the answer and I don’t like it. 

(via keepyourbsoutofmyuterus)


Voting While Trans


Transgender people, the majority of whom have never had problems voting in the past, may now lose their right to vote due to dozens of new voter suppression laws. Over 25,000 transgender people could have their voting rights taken away. In response to these dubious new laws, we have released two resources to help transgender people reclaim their voting rights.

Definitely take a look at this website if you’re eligible to vote this upcoming election! It’s extremely important, considering that Romney will literally try to take away our basic human and legal rights. Spread this around as well so your trans* followers can see it.

(via whoneedssexed)

I want everyone to sign this petition, but if you live in TX, I NEED YOU TO SIGN THIS PETITION


The petition is asking the Texas Health and Human Services Commission to not enact new abortion reporting requirements.

I will personally be delivering the signatures to the TX HHS commission.

These new requirements are intended to make abortion more difficult to provide and harder to access for the Texas doctors who have a legal right to provide the procedure and Texans who have a legal right to undergo it.

The new proposed rules are Department of State Health Services and HHSC’s attempts at putting into statute that which Rep. Bill Zedler’s proposed legislation could not put into law with his proposed, but failed, HB 1602 (82nd Legislature) and HB 1131 (80th Legislature), as well as the unattached Zedler amendment to SB7 in 2011.

Throughout the public comment period that opened on this matter in April, DSHS has as yet been unable or unwilling to identify any existing problems that these new requirements solve, or give any reasoning for their inception beyond admitting that they are a direct response to Bill Zedler’s personal desire to see his own anti-woman, anti-choice beliefs put into legal statute by any means necessary.

HHSC, if it adopts these new abortion reporting requirements, is subverting Texas’ critical democratic process by bending to the wishes of one individual legislator.


(via bebinn)

The worst anti-abortion bill in the nation



Remember those Michigan lawmakers who were silenced for saying the word “vagina”? The bill those women legislators wanted to discuss has passed the Michigan House and is now headed to the full Michigan Senate. If it passes and is signed into law, it will become virtually impossible to find a clinic in Michigan that can meet state regulations for performing abortions.

The bill is called HB-5711, and it would force women who have abortions to pay for the burial, cremation, or interment of any fetus 10-weeks or older, a first in the nation that would create unbearable costs for women, including those who have been raped. For fetuses at 20 weeks gestation, a death certificate must be obtained, subjecting the woman to potential public scrutiny at a time of private stress.

Additionally, any doctors who perform abortions would have to make costly and unnecessary renovations to their clinics — even if they only administer the morning-after pill. The dramatic effect of all this needless regulation is the closure of most Michigan health centers that provide abortions, and the remaining ones will be forced to charge much higher fees for services that one in three women will need some time in their life.

Tell Republican State Senators: HB-5711 will drive doctors out of Michigan and close family planning clinics. Say no to this bill and protect women’s access to the health care.

We have to stop this radical erosion of women’s access to healthcare masquerading as “reasonable restrictions.” The state Senate will consider this bill after it returns to session on August 15, and we need to show a determined opposition as soon as possible.

Under the bill, some physicians performing more than five abortions per month must carry $1 million in liability insurance. And it completely bans the best method for many rural women to access medication abortions through telemedicine practices. Michigan women are already suffering from too few obstetricians and gynecologists — especially in rural areas — and if HB-5711 gets passed and signed by the governor, some doctors will quit providing abortions, leave the state, or simply retire.

The committee that considered this bill in the Michigan House heard testimony from 10 people. Nine of them were against the bill, including a board-certified Obstetrician/Gynecologist. Just one person testified in favor of the bill: the head of an anti-abortion group. Despite this testimony, the committee passed the bill. And the fact that these requirements are directed only at clinics where abortions are performed, a procedure that is less invasive than many procedures done routinely in doctor’s offices, shows that this has nothing to do with women’s health or safety, and everything to do with politics.

It’s still possible that with enough pressure and publicity, we can slow or stop this extreme and dangerous bill from getting out of the Michigan Senate and onto the Governor’s desk for signature. But we have to act fast to build the necessary momentum before the legislature returns to session on August 15.

Tell your State Senator: Reject HB-5711 and stop the war on women’s access to reproductive health care in Michigan.

*this issue affects everyone, not just women.


If you in any way participated in the “Vagina” issue, you’d better be signing this damn petition, calling your representatives, and making just as big a fuss about the actual bill.

*not just women, not all women

(Source: stfuprolifers, via wswni-deactivated20121106)

Rep. Todd Akin: Ban The Morning-After Pill | TPM2012


Rep. Todd Akin, the Republican nominee for Senate in Missouri, wants to ban the morning-after pill, considering it to be a form of abortion, he told a Kansas City radio station Wednesday.

“As far as I’m concerned, the morning-after pill is a form of abortion, and I think we just shouldn’t have abortion in this country,” Akin said Wednesday, the day after his victory in the Republican primary, in an interview with Kansas City radio host Greg Knapp.

Missourians, just…take this guy out, would you? He’s stinking up the place.

(Source: sarahlee310)

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