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Is it Safe to Use my Sex Toy When I’m Pregnant?
Pregnancy can be a wonderful but confusing time for your body. So many things are off limits for the health of you and your baby, how do you know what’s OK and not? We get this question all the time and figured it was time to address it for our followers who are expecting.
In fact, it can be very important to use sex toys during pregnancy. Many women have trouble achieving orgasms while they’re…
Give me inspiration for my “how to choose a sex toy” post and “how to use certain sex toys post”. People who buy sex toys, what qualities do you look for? What helps you decide what toys to use? What would help a beginner? Beginner, what questions do you have heading into the world of sex toys? What questions do you have about using sex toys? What toys do you wish came with better instructions? Anything I left out?
whovianoir reblogged your post and added:
Can I get the experienced guide please?
You mean the experienced guide to masturbation? That’s a good point, I never really wrote one! What do my followers think would count as experienced masturbation. My thought process would be that with experience you try more things; different speeds, different pressures, different movements, different positions, and different toys. What more information do I need to have about masturbation besides whats in my FAQ so far?
Here is the list of masturbation and sex myths and facts the OWL curriculum mentions. What are some that are missing.
- most DFABs masturbate by inserting something into their vagina (M)
- DFABS are more likely to orgasm through clitoral stimulation than vaginal (F)
- Sexual fantasies are always things we want to do (M)
- if a person masturbates a lot as a teen they won’t enjoy sex (M)
- DMAB boys who masturbate together show early signs of being gay (M)
- if a member of a couple masturbates something wrong with their relationship (M)
- If a DMAB person gets an erection they need to orgasm or it will be painful (Myth and partial fact)
- a lesbian is attracted to anyone who is a woman and a gay man is attracted to anyone who is a man (M)
- A man is always ready to have sex (M)
- Once a man gets turned on he can’t stop (M)
Some I can think of include
- If you masturbate your genitals will get bigger
- if you masturbate it’ll get harder to orgasm
- masturbating analy makes you gay
- everyone likes to masturbate
- women don’t enjoy sex
- masturbation is morally wrong.
Any others we can think of?
what are some myths about masturbation teens need busted?
What do teens need to know about masturbation?
I was wondering what your thoughts on this were?
FYSE: I think the animation is cute, and it is a cute idea. I’m a huge supporter of video games being used more often as a teaching tool, I think it’d be really great to have a game where you can choose certain safer sex methods and with probabilities see if your character becomes pregnant or gets an STI and it’d show you how to go to the doctor and get tested or get a pelvic exam and all that so I definitely like the idea of making a game out of masturbation as well.
Of course this is incredibly cissexist using feminine pronouns and calling it female masturbation. I definitely think we can use media to reduce stigma, even just talking about it in tv shows or in music would help.
I guess I’d have to play the game or see more about it to actually do a critique.
Masturbation, Relationships, and Sex: A Guide for Trans and Gender Variant People
Sex, relationships, and masturbation can be tricky when you’re Trans. You have to deal with social stigma as well as your own dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is the feeling that your body isn’t quite right. For trans people this usually involves the genitals and chest, but it can also involve body hair, voice, facial features, weight distribution, and many other parts of the body. This can make it difficult to even be naked, let alone touching your body or having it be touched. There’s also the constant fear of rejection or even violence which is why many trans people are hesitant to start up relationships or approach someone for sex. In this article we’ll discuss some tips on how to deal with each of these issues.
Of course it looks like everyone’s going to want the most difficult article, Trans* Sex.
SO PLEASE GIVE ME TIPS.
This is supposed to be about talking about dysphoria and how to deal with dysphoria during masturbation and sexual conduct and different toys you can use to help.
I do know of what works for me, but I want other trans* people to tell me what works for them.
I know of a few popular techniques like the DFAB masturbation sleeve, curling the “penis” up so that it’s more like fingering, muffing, my own technique of treating a phallic vibrator like a penis during masturbation, and of course using strap ons, double dildos, and referring to your parts by the right gendered language but does anyone have any other useful tips?
Now that I’ve finished my Sex Aids post I’m going to get started on my post on how to introduce sex toys to your partner and use them during partnered sexual play.
If anyone has any questions or things they want to be sure I include let me know
So far I have
- how to bring up the subject of sex toys and talk about them
- how to address any fears or insecurities about using sex toys that your partner may have
- how sex will be made better with the use of sex toys
- how to use certain sex toys during partnered sexual play
Also remember I’m working on a post on trans* sexuality so if anyone wants to chime in on tips during masturbation or sex, different products they use, and how to deal with dysphoria and your sexuality let me know.
I’m also still working on my video on orientations so if anyone has any questions or comments before I finish it let me know.