fuck yeah sex education | I’m a sixteen year old girl and I have been dating this guy who is a little bit older then me and has had sex way more then i have. I have only had sex once. We have been talking about having sex lately and im ready but im nervous about it. Do you have any good advise for me to make this more enjoyable for the both of us?

Anonymous asked: I'm a sixteen year old girl and I have been dating this guy who is a little bit older then me and has had sex way more then i have. I have only had sex once. We have been talking about having sex lately and im ready but im nervous about it. Do you have any good advise for me to make this more enjoyable for the both of us?

Here’s my advice to make penetration not painful from my FAQ: The reason why penetration can be painful at first is because you might not know what you’re doing. First, you need to get yourself aroused. Being aroused loosens, lengthens, and lubricates the vagina. You can become aroused by porn, touching erogenous zones (neck, chest, stomach, thighs, etc.), or by touching your clitoris. After you become aroused you should be producing lubrication. Some people have trouble producing lubrication, so you might need to use lube. You get the lubrication on your finger and then gently massage around your vagina then gently insert it. If it’s still painful you might have a medical problem, either one of the hymen ones discussed earlier, or one that causes pain with penetration like vaginisumus. After you’ve been able to penetrate yourself with a finger, you can try two, three, or a vibrator or dildo or a penis.

Also from my FAQ, here’s my guide to foreplay: http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/post/18227204433/a-how-to-guide-to-foreplay#notes

My guide to fellatio: http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/post/15846101502/fellatio-and-oral-sex

My Guide to cunnilingus: http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/post/16557763132/cunnilingus-and-oral-sex-guide

I’m currently working on a guide to fingering and other manual sex, but till then here’s my guide to masturbation: http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/post/15208134722/masturbation-a-beginners-guide

My guide to anal sex: http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/post/16586969913/beginners-guide-to-anal-play

My guide to you being on top or “riding” during sex: http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/post/17196896773/how-to-be-on-top-during-sex

and my guide to safe sex: http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/post/16125145312/safe-sex

(what other sex guides should I make? Maybe different positions?)