Anonymous asked: I am incredibly (sexually) jealous of my partner's past partners. On bad days, I get nauseous while thinking about the fact that my partner has had sexual experiences with others and enjoyed them. I sort of think "but it should have been me". This is not my first partner, but he's the first one it bothers me with. I need to find a way to deal with this because it puts a lot of pressure on me and our relationship.
You need to examine why you’re so jealous with this partner and why you think it should have been you to have sex with him. He’s with you now which is all that matters. You might look into couple’s therapy. Until then you can talk to KeepCalmIPromiseItGetsBetter who is pretty much the resident tumblr therapist.
