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In Light Of The New 50 Shades of Grey Trailer

fuckyeahsexpositivity:

E.L. James knows as much about BDSM as she would have found in a five minute Google search, which is to say that she knows precisely jack shit.

50 Shades of Grey does not depict a realistic kinky relationship, nor does it depict a healthy relationship of either the kinky or vanilla variety.

It is a Twilight fanfic, and has all the elements of Edward and Bella’s abusive relationship with kink added for extra flavor. Just as Edward and Bella are not a healthy or realistic couple, neither are Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele.

Christian Grey is an abuser who manipulates a young woman with zero knowledge of BDSM into a relationship with him. He knows she is ignorant of what a healthy BDSM relationship looks like, and uses this to:

  • ignore and override her attempts at negotiation,
  • play without a safeword (since she doesn’t know that they exist),
  • create a false dichotomy of “either we’re kinky my way or we just don’t have sex at all,”
  • threaten and stalk her,
  • rape her,
  • prevent her from discussing her relationship with anyone other than him,
  • and control aspects of her personal life, including what car she drives, what medications she takes, and how she spends her free time.

This is not BDSM. This is not sexy. This is abuse.

Using 50 Shades as your basis for how a kinky relationship works (for critical or practical purposes) is like treating Titanic: The Legend Goes On as a historical documentary. Don’t do it.

—BB

I was hoping that we’d be over the 50 shades frenzy but I’m sure the new movie will make it crop up again, so here’s a reminder that it does not depict a health relationship or a BDSM relationship.

Image via Tumblr user crusherccme, found in 1996 Cornell Women’s Handbook.

Five Best Condoms For Large Penises

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If you’re expecting Magnum XLs and other Trojan Magnum varieties to dominate this list of the five best condoms for large penises, surprise! Guess what? None of them made the cut!

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what is an absolute sure sign of pregnancy, that is possibly not the obvious ones?

themidwifeisin:

There are 3 types of signs of pregnancy: possible, probable, and positive.

Possible Signs of pregnancy are things that look like they could be signs of pregnancy, but could also be caused by something else:

  • Missed period - could be caused by TONS of things, but pregnancy is always the first thought
  • Nausea and vomiting (morning sickness)
  • Need to pee constantly
  • Enlarged, tender breasts
  • Just “feeling” pregnant
  • Fatigue, tiredness
  • Ptyalism (Excessive saliva)
  • Montgomery’s Tubercules
  • Stretch Marks
  • Spider Veins
  • Quickening (Feeling fetal movement)
  • Chadwick’s Sign (Bluish tinge to the vagina and cervix)
  • Colostrum (discharge or milk) from your breasts 

Probable signs of pregnancy are symptoms that indicate pregnancy most of the time.  However, there is still the chance they can be false or caused by something other than pregnancy, like presumptive signs.

  • Enlarged or growing belly
  • Positive Pregnancy Test
  • Change in the shape of the uterus
  • Softening of the cervix (Goodell’s Sign)
  • Braxton Hicks Contractions
  • Being able to feel a fetus

Positive signs of pregnancy are signs that are definite, and cannot be caused by anything but pregnancy.

  • Palpation of fetal movement by a trained examiner
  • Hearing fetal heart tones (the fetal heart beat)
  • Ultrasound or Xray showing a fetus

Surprising, right?  You would have thought that a positive pregnancy test would be a positive sign, and I would have too, to be honest.  Still, there are other things that can cause a positive pregnancy test, such as a defective test, incorrect usage of the test, certain medications, certain other conditions affecting one’s hormones. 

If you have any of these possible or probable signs and you think it’s possible that you’re actually pregnant, take a pregnancy test and make an appointment with a midwife or doctor to see if you are pregnant, and figure out your options.

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Reblogging in honor of the last day of Social Work Month.  These arent ranked in any particular order so check them all out.  If I missed you just let me know!

yo I’m reblogging this because it can seriously help folks out, definitely a list worth keeping.
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stablevertigo:

I would like to give Planned Parenthood and their Teen Council forum 10/10 stars

idk about you all, but this made me cryand i know not all forms do this, this might be the only one, but knowing that at least one organization recognizes me as a person, doesn’t ask me to lie to fit their box, is one of the most calming and beautiful things to experience.and i’m just waiting for the day when government forms use this, when schools ask for preferred pronouns, when everywhere has an other category for gender and pronouns.we’re getting there, y’all.  we’re demanding to be seen and it’s working

PLANNED PARENTHOOD YES. Thank you, so awesome.


This is really great. I would like to caution people though that every Planned Parenthood is different. Not all clinics will have this on their forms, and although most clinics aren’t trans negative, treatment options like HRT and other trans resources vary from clinic to clinic.

Best Positions For Curved Penises

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While cruising our twitter page, I saw someone had posted something to the tune of, “Don’t tell me size doesn’t matter when there’s no 3 inch, curved vibrator.”

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micdotcom:

Forget the spreadsheet, here’s an easy flowchart to know if a women owes you sex

Microsoft Excel took a turn for the explicit this week when the Internet learned the once-innocuous office tool was being used in a dispiriting new bro-trend: using the software to track of the number of times their partners refuse sex. Yes, #sexspreadsheets are a thing, presumably because some men still believe that owning of a penis entitles them to unlimited sexy times.
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