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fuck yeah sex education

March 2012

Anonymous asked: The thing is, though, it's not beautiful! I used to be 300+ lbs and I lost a lot of weight! Like, 150 lbs, but I still have excess skin and fat there. It doesn't really match my body and there aren't any exercises to target that area.. D:

Anonymous asked: Like a big mons pubis

Anonymous asked: My inner thighs are rather dark and I'm very uncomfortable about him going down on me in the day.. what can I do to get rid of the insecurity much less really dark inner thighs?

Anonymous asked: What can do you do about a bigger upper vagina area.. ??

Anonymous asked: I give my boyfriend blow jobs allll the time. But he rarely goes down on me. How do I make him return the favor more often?

lilith-laquim asked: The problem with too-small condoms is actually the ring at the base of it rather than the condom itself. It puts pressure around the base of the penis and acts almost like a cock ring, and in some cases can be really painful. Also, condoms *can* stretch to huge dimensions, but that doesn't mean they should *have to* in order to put one on. Find a size that works for you and don't feel...

lainface replied to your post: To the anon talking about XXL condoms - my mom is a graduate school professor of human sexuality. Every semester she has an activity where students get extra credit if they can get an average condom past their elbow without breaking it, and in 10 years of teaching, only 7 students have broken the condom. The condom is big enough. XXL just panders to a guy’s ego. I...

brokenmindthoughts asked: I can attest to the condom thing. At one point, I tried to put on a regular sized condom and it cut into my penis very tightly and it was painful. Same with a magnum-sized condom, they were uncomfortable for a while until I got used to them (the XXL was TOO large). And while one CAN blow up a condom to the size of my head, and bounce it around like a volleyball, it's not that simple for...

thesleepiestofboys asked: To the anon talking about XXL condoms - my mom is a graduate school professor of human sexuality. Every semester she has an activity where students get extra credit if they can get an average condom past their elbow without breaking it, and in 10 years of teaching, only 7 students have broken the condom. The condom is big enough. XXL just panders to a guy's ego.

Anonymous asked: no one believes that i dont masturbate, is there something wrong with me?

Anonymous asked: I've never heard anything about Saint Johns wort and birth control! Educate me!

Anonymous asked: I finally bought my first vibrator!! It's so liberating. :D I'm the anon from a few weeks ago that was scared to buy one. I finally mustered up the courage to!

nossaquechique asked: Hello! :) I'm a big fan of this blog! So I have a question about birth control pills. I wanted to know if you could recommend any brands to check out for someone who has PCOS. I used to take Ocella, but those caused boils and actually led to a potassium problem which messed up my bladder...I have flares now where I have to pee a lot every once in a while. I would still like to use BC to...

Anonymous asked: It may seem ridiculous/offensive, but a group of girls and guys today were saying that black/asian/ethnic women have more frequent vaginal infections than white people. (Their language, of course, was more offensive) Does this have any basis of truth?

Anonymous asked: re: hymens and menstrual cups. There are loads of reviews on menstrual cups on youtube and quite a few from virgins that discuss their issues etc. Most of them end up successfully inserting and are happy with the product, but I say check them out if you want an idea!

Anonymous asked: I've been wondering about what's going to happen when I lose my virginity... I've never liked/been comfortable with tampons.. So I'm wondering if intercourse is going to suck for me for a long time because of my dislike for tampons?

Anonymous asked: Ok, so I have really bad problems with maintaining the lady cave's landscape... I've been shaving it since early middle school (had to :/) & now I'm 18 & to the point where I wear short shorts on top of my swim suit bottoms. I've tried many "techniques" & I always seem to either cut myself and/or miss some spots completely. The hair's growing down my...

Anonymous asked: Hey there! I've been on Marvelon for about 8-9 months and I take the pill religiously at pretty much the same time every single day, give or take a few minutes. I'm extremely paranoid about accidental pregnancy. Over the past few months I've noticed a pattern in the amount of discharge I get throughout my cycle. I have a really big increase in cervical mucus around mid-cycle, when...

Anonymous asked: I'm seventeen years old and have gone far as receiving oral, but never giving it... But the last time that happened was four months ago... Am I considered sexually active?

youneedareasontosmile asked: I got my divacup at London Drugs! They also have them at Shopper's Drug Mart- though I live in Canada so this might not be accurate for other places.

Anonymous asked: It it possible to use divacups/softcups/mooncups with an unbroken hymen? Every time I try one, they won't stay. It's basically like I push them as far back as I can without hurting and they just slip out..

Anonymous asked: I had a really hard time getting my tampons in without hurting, and my biggest piece of advice is to try and buy the smallest tampons you can find. The ones that made it easier for me were OB brand tampons, which have no applicator, so you insert them manually. It's a lot easier because it gives you a better feel for what you're doing and it's easier to relax your muscles because it...

Anonymous asked: Is it possible to have a thick hymen? I can't insert tampons comfortably (even with great force they do not go far inside) and any kind of sexual penetration is limited to just a couple inches in before you hit the "wall' of skin. There's just a small fingertip sized hole. Anything small enough can be inserted comfortably, but nothing else. Even when I deliberately try to...

Anonymous asked: Any tips on how to insert a tampon so it is comfortable? Every time I try it feels like its not in correctly and feels so uncomfortable the whole time.

a--------a-deactivated20120419 asked: As an fyi- chocolate doesn't improve your mood, it reduces anxiety (the chemicals in chocolate have a strong affinity for the nuerotransmitter GABA, which is known as the "relaxing" hormone. :3 Just some food for thought! Saint Johns wort can also work miracles, if your body agrees with it that is. :)

Anonymous asked: I'm 16 and have never had a visit to an ob-gyn, my mom has never even talked about it. I've heard that I should already have gone at least once by my age. Is is bad that I haven't?

Anonymous asked: hey am another anon. do u think a tampon is safe? I've recently started to use it for the first time because my friends say it's much better (?) than using a pad. i found it much much better than a pad, but i am not comfy with inserting them inside me because i sometimes put them in 'the wrong places' and it hurts (NOT my anus, no lol)

Anonymous asked: I just wanted to share a good shaving technique I've learned over the past few months. I shave with the grain of the hair and then perpendicular to the grain of the hair, sometimes angling it 45 degrees to the grain of the hair. I've found that it works really well because it gets closer but it doesn't cause irritation (I shave with just my normal body soap and a Gillette Fusion...

Anonymous asked: to the person wanting to buy a divacup: i've seen them at the whole foods market before. i think a lot of more natural grocery stores sell them

Anonymous asked: Is PMS a "real" thing? Is it common? I've recently begun having definite changes in my mood before getting my period, and I absolutely hate it, because it will continue through the week of my period--totaling 2 weeks out of 4 in the month that I'm down and depressed, and sometimes emotionally "numb." Any advice?

Menstrual Cups and Cloth Pads

fuckyeahsexeducation: Since someone asked where they could get a diva cup I figured I’d write a post on Menstrual Cups and Cloth Pads and tell you a little bit about them and wear to find them. Menstrual Cups are little silicone cups that you use much like tampons. You insert it into the vagina and it will catch all the blood. You then take it out, empty it, clean it, and reuse it. It can be...

Anonymous asked: Can you get a divacup at the same place you get tampons and pads?

Anonymous asked: I've been thinking about trying out the DivaCup. Is it that much safer than a tampon?

Anonymous asked: My b.f. came, and he got a little on my vagina. Not inside, but right on it.. Should I be worried?

Anonymous asked: Is it possible to accidentally urinate while having an orgasm? I'm a cis-female, by the way. I had an orgasm (I had peed beforehand), it left a puddle of something on my bed, and when I smelled it, it had a hint of urine-smell. However, I recently read that female ejaculate has some urine in it, so I'm just trying to figure out what that liquid stuff was!

senister asked: For the person looking for abortion stories imnotsorry. net is a website where women who have gotten abortions and don't regret it share their positive experiences.

(TW: eating disorder)

Anon: my boyfriend is well endowed, and after we have sex i always get stomach pains the following day. i’m in recovery for pretty severe bulimia and i wanted to make sure this wasn’t because i was putting too much pressure on my intestines and stomach during sex, possibly hurting myself without meaning to, or if it’s just something that has to do with my build and the way my...

Anonymous asked: Thinner condoms are actually LESS likely to break because they are more stretchy and accommodating.

hitmeagaintubesock asked: I've noticed you've been answering a lot of shaving questions. I was wondering--i read fairly recently that the desire for a shaved partner stems from the desire for innocence (you know, pure, unpenetrated, virgin innocence that seems to be so "important" to our effed up society). Do you know if there is any truth to this or have any sources that back this up?

Anonymous asked: last ask: i am not baselessly uncomfrotable with abortion, i am extremely comfortable and pro-choice. i just want people to think about it as a medical procedure that shouldn't be taken advantage of and to use safe sex to prevent them - a stance planned parenthood would agree with. i'm not saying, under any circumstance, that these people should have a child instead of an abortion. only...

Anonymous asked: i hate getting hair in my mouth when i'm giving oral but it's even worse when both your partner and you are clean shaven and the hair's starting to grow in and the stubble just rubs against each other. ouch.

Anonymous asked: On the pubic hair thing, one explanation a friend of mine gave me when I asked was that pubic hair getting in one's mouth while giving oral is annoying and can be a turn off. As always though it's a personal preference.

Anonymous asked: I really love your blog, but I had to unfollow you because there are just way too many asks and it floods my dash. For the frequently repeated questions that aren't from anons, is there a way that you could answer them privately instead? And make your FAQ more visible to them?

Anonymous asked: My abortion story, I had found out the guy I was sleeping with was a total jerk- he was trashing me behind my back so we stopped talking. Then I found out I was pregnant. When I called him, he accused me of lying about being on birth control- then said he'd pay for me to have an abortion and hung up. Planned Parenthood was fantastic they gave me the support that he wouldn't. I never felt...

Anonymous asked: About the pubic hair thing, I'm curious about that too. I trim but I never shave. It's uncomfortable and it just seems sort of... creepy to me, having bare genitals like a child's. But I hear people discuss it on the radio and at school and it seems that people generally find unshaved pubic hair a bit gross. It makes me wonder if people just expect their partners to be shaved, which...

Anonymous asked: Yesterday my boyfriend and I had protected anal sex. When he pulled out, there was blood on the condom. Thankfully none got on him, and we cleaned him thoroughly. But today I'm still bleeding pretty bad. Is this serious?

Anonymous asked: Regarding whether or not you're "supposed" to shave, I think the question is referring to how common it is...? Like, it's pretty easy to know whether or not female-presenting people shave their legs and/or armpits, since everyone can see them. I think a lot of people are still in the dark about pubic hair. Would you say shaving is more or less the standard, even if you...

Anonymous asked: if the resources it took to provide free abortions to any pregnant woman were unlimited, i wouldn't have any problem with those people - people who use abortions as a form of birth control. but that is not the case. health care is a basic human right and should be treated as such. water is a basic human need, which is why we conserve it. for the sake of keeping that resource available to all....

klondikebar123 asked: For the anonooking for abortion stories, mine is on my page, and I'm always willing to answer questions about my abortion and the emotional effects it left on me. :)