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February 2012

REMEMBER: THE ONLY RIGHT WAY TO ORGASM IS THE WAY...

becauseiamawoman: thesexuneducated: Don’t ever let someone tell you otherwise. The way you experience pleasure is the right way and if someone takes issue with this, then they are the one with the problem. Don’t allow the hegemonic narrative of masculinity/femininity and the dynamics that “should” occur between these two ideologies twist you up in knots about your sexual experiences. If your...

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Ten Steps To Health At Every Size

Think of these steps as a dance rather than a linear progression. Move from one to another and back again as fits your own personal style and journey. Stop weighing yourself. Shift your focus from weight & body fat to healthy behaviors and fitness. Live now, not in the past or future. Live your life as if you were at your desired weight—including wearing beautiful, comfortable...

brightflowerpetals: fuck yeah sex education: I’ve gotten a couple more questions about my views on incest. Here’s my answer and I’m putting it in the FAQ now. fuckyeahsexeducation: brightflowerpetals: fuckyeahsexeducation: Anon1: What is your take on incest? I’m talking about consensual sexual contact between willing adults, not children. Do you think it should be legal?...

I got some questions from some people about my...

1-2-3-fuck-it asked you: 2012-02-26 15:46 i really appreciate this blog. i feel like i’ve learned a lot from it. thank you for taking the time to be there for people when they have questions. Just, not to be rude, but what makes you a credible source? did you go to school and learn all of this info or did you read it from books? I’m just trying to make sure the things i’m...

Anonymous asked: I love this blog so much! It makes me so happy to see someone like you being helpful and so open minded to every situation. More people need to think like you. Thank you so much for what you do here!

fuck yeah sex education: I've gotten a couple more... →

brightflowerpetals: fuckyeahsexeducation: Anon1: What is your take on incest? I’m talking about consensual sexual contact between willing adults, not children. Do you think it should be legal? What about the ruling in Lawrence v. Texas (2003) that says the Constitution prevents states from criminalizing private sexual conduct between… so apparently this justifies incest? -.- smh. i’m sorry,...

Anonymous asked: Thank you so much for running this blog! When I become sexually active I want to know what to do and like posts for the future and inform my friends stuff I have learned on here they don't know about. You're doing a real nice thing for your followers on here making them feel comfortable and answering questions with no judgment. So thank you! You're awsome!

perpetually-impressed asked: I'm thinking about getting an IUD, and am concerned about the potential for more troublesome/heavier periods. Do you or any of your followers have experience with copper IUDs that they can share? When I look online, only those who are dissatisfied tend to have a voice about it.

Anonymous asked: I have small bumps on the base of the shaft of my penis. They have never bothered me, and have been there since I was a virgin. Should I be concerned?

Anonymous asked: Would something like vaginal fisting or using large dildos eventually make giving birth easier? (I think I answered this anonymously but if I didn't PLEASE send to my inbox privately!!!)

Anonymous asked: my boyfriend is 16 and masturbated 6-8 times a day, is that normal/healthy? he's a really horny kid hahaha and is very stressed

flutterpie88 asked: Just like it prostitution there are porn actress who have less chosen to join the business then that they were forced into it by unfortunate circumstances. In that case those women would be objectified. There is also the factor of if the woman is presented in an objectifying withing the porn. I tend to prefer porn where there is a possibility where the woman is a sex positive feminist.

Anonymous asked: Thanks for the answer on the incest topic. A lot of people go around talking about birth defects and how dangerous it is, but it's only slightly more dangerous than a complete stranger (whose genetic history you probably don't even know). Also like you said, a few generations is usually needed for it to be evident.

Anonymous asked: you may have answered this before, im not sure... anyway, my gf has a really high sex drive when she's on her period, but her favourite act is oral... i have told her that i'm willing to go down on her during her period but she seems to think its a bad idea. since neither of us have gyno appointments soon, i thought i'd pose the question here first: is it fine to eat her out while...

Anonymous asked: To the anon who only gets their period every 5-8 months. I had the same exact problem for years. We thought it was because I was a runner [which I quit 4 years ago and that didn't solve anything] but it actually may be because I don't produce enough estrogen/produce too much testosterone. I've been put on birth control and have since been having regular periods. Definitely something...

I've gotten a couple more questions about my views...

Anon1: What is your take on incest? I’m talking about consensual sexual contact between willing adults, not children. Do you think it should be legal? What about the ruling in Lawrence v. Texas (2003) that says the Constitution prevents states from criminalizing private sexual conduct between consenting adults? On one hand, I think it should be allowed because they’re consenting...

TW: Rape fantasies

Anon: What is your idea of a rape fantasy? FYSE: I’m not for sure what this is asking, but I’ll try. Rape fantasies are usually either about someone fantasizing about having sex with someone non consensually or someone fantasizing about someone having sex with them without their consent. This can also be called ravishment play or non consent fantasy. This can be acted out in the...

Anonymous asked: I get turned on masturbating with every day objects that have the possibility of being dirty, and especially masturbating after being on the bus/subway without washing my hands. What is this called and is it bad for me?

Anonymous asked: I'm a sixteen year old girl and I have been dating this guy who is a little bit older then me and has had sex way more then i have. I have only had sex once. We have been talking about having sex lately and im ready but im nervous about it. Do you have any good advise for me to make this more enjoyable for the both of us?

Anonymous asked: My boyfriend (A cis male) and I (a cis female) are poly. I know he eventually wants myself and his other girlfriend (another cis-female) to be in a triad. I am hetero-fluid but am not attracted in his girlfriend in any way. She is lovely, and wonderful, (compersion ftw) I just don't want to be with her. I've told him this, but he will still occasionally bring it up, especially since...

Anonymous asked: I have been menstruating for about six years now, however I only get my period about once every five-eight months. I know one's cycle is usually irregular at first, but it should have evened out by now. What could be causing this?

Anonymous asked: Have you ever tried double penetration? What tips would you have for people who might want to try it?

Anonymous asked: I have oral herpes, but my boyfriend still doesn't show signs of having it even though I've kissed him on the lips with an outbreak many times. Does this mean he doesn't have it, or is immune to it or something? I'm really just afraid I'll accidentally spread it to him during oral sex.

Anonymous asked: when my boyfriend and i are making out in our underwear, i find it difficult to be on top of him because i can feel he is getting hard, and i am afraid that i might hurt him or something if i sit on top of him. do you have any suggestions for positions on top so that i dont interfere with his penis?

Anonymous asked: I have heard that you can have an innie or and outie vagina type?

Female Ejaculation-How To

I have seen a few posts on this page asking about female ejaculation, but there was no given “how to.” So if I may, impart some knowledge on the art of coming your brains out. Luckily for me, I have an amazing partner who was so gracious to give me a practical demonstration and to also help me practice perfectly. Some people who give advice on this will say that complete internal...

Anonymous asked: is it normal that sometimes after "im wet" or cum or whatever (im a girl btw). is it normal that it gets stuck in my bowels idk how to exactly explain it but i can feel it and sometimes it follows onto my pants in a really big white glob

menageriemanager replied to your post: “Is there anything wrong with masturbating with a shower head? Like, is there any sort of infection I can get?” and you answered “nope”…well in fact, it is dangerous. What can occur is the water that is forced into the vagina could possibly be pushed into the uterus or the abdominal cavity and cause damage. also an “air embolus”, which you can die from and...

Anonymous asked: I pretend that I'm pregnant. What can I do to stop this?

Anonymous asked: Hey just how much do different lubes wear my latex dildo? Can anything negative result from that happening? Not that I constantly use sylicone lube with my dildo, but just wondering. I've found that my own spit is the best lube when masturbating.

Anonymous asked: Is it true that sex toys made of "cyberskin" or PVC are dangerous to your health? Why? What problems can they cause?

Sex, Uneducated

kateordie: This morning, I put out a call for Sex Ed horror stories from former and current teens, after reading about Utah’s decision to adopt an abstinence-only policy when it comes to teaching about sexual health. Of course, that’s ridiculous - but not as crazy as some of these testimonials. Read on, it’s fascinating. On Periods & Other Ovarian Mysteries “Our sex ed in biology class was...

Anonymous asked: I am incredibly (sexually) jealous of my partner's past partners. On bad days, I get nauseous while thinking about the fact that my partner has had sexual experiences with others and enjoyed them. I sort of think "but it should have been me". This is not my first partner, but he's the first one it bothers me with. I need to find a way to deal with this because it puts a lot of...

Anonymous asked: I can feel a small hard bump on my cervix. What could this be?

Anonymous asked: If I took my pill an hour late and then had sex the same night is there a possibility I could get pregnant?

toplessbooks asked: hey I was just wondering if maybe you would check out my youtube channel and if you thought it was appropriate share it. I make videos about sexual education, mostly dealing with sex toys but I have begun expanding my horizons recently. It is youtube. com/ toplessbooks. Thanks for your time!

Anonymous asked: How can I get my classmates to stop gossiping about what (and who) other people may or may not be doing sexually, especially since the people being discussed aren't there? They're really disrespectful and slut-shame-y about it, and it's starting to piss me off.

Anonymous asked: Will taking birth control that increases my estrogen put me more at risk for breast cancer?

Anonymous asked: I was foreplaying with my boyfriend. I guess we rushed right to it and he started fingering me. It Hurt a lot but it felt good at the same time. I wasnt wet enough but he still managed to insert more fingers.. As i said before It felt great at the same time to hurt, but I didn't feel any time great about it. I'm really sore and everytime I try to wash my vagina it hurts. Is it normal? Is...

Anonymous asked: Everytime i finger myself there is blood on my fingers. But if I finger myself after an orgasm there is no blood. I mean, its just a drop. But Im kinda scared now.

Anonymous asked: I'm a virgin, my boyfriend fingers me sometimes, but I was just fingering myself and I guess I was going a bit more rough then usual, and I started bleeding so much :/ like A LOT. Is this normal?! it's defs not my period.

Anonymous asked: I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I wasn't a virgin, but my previous boyfriend never did a very good job and sex with him hurt more often than it did any good. During sex with my boyfriend now, everything felt REALLY intense (in a good way), to the point where I literally "saw stars". At a certain point we had to stop because it was too overhwelming and I was...

Anonymous asked: Okay, this is gonna sound stupid but I need someone's opinion! When I was with my baby daddy, he gave me a string of STDs (curable, but still, I was pregnant so..) One of which was HPV, and it was the wart strain, but I only had one breakout, and four years later I have been deemed STD free (my pap smears all come back normal, no sign of the virus). My question is, I've been in a...

Anonymous asked: I am a girl and was wondering if it was normal to not ejaculate when I orgasm?

Consent Pt. II: When Drunk Consent Between...

lets-blog-about-sex-baby: I got an ask a couple of days ago asking about drunk consent, and what one does when BOTH parties are drunk, but one regrets what was done once they’re sober. I answered the “short” version in the ask, but here I am to elaborate and hopefully shed some extra light on consent in drunk situations. Before we get into deep details, I cannot express how vitally IMPORTANT...

Anonymous asked: I would be careful about recommending motherless, since they host a lot of illegal and damaging pornography. :/

Anonymous asked: Also, in terms of searching for porn, a really amazing site to use is PornMD[.]com This site is essentially a porn search engine and works as an aggregate of results from some of the most popular porn sites. Basically, it's like searching 8 sites at once. :)