fuck yeah sex education

Sex Positive and Body Positive educational place. Includes information about different relationships, genders, sexuality, sexual preferences, safety precautions and everything else that could pertain in the education of sex. Accepting of all walks of life.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask on my ask site: http://fyseq.tumblr.com/ask, though check out http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/FAQ!

Many Sexually Active U.S. Teens Not Tested for HIV: CDC


Hmmm… I am going to go with not complacency but maybe the fact that sex ed in this country is HORRIBLE. It does not teach teens/younger people what they need to know to have a healthy sex life! Guess what, that includes teaching them about HIV and how important it is to be tested. Not just talking about vaginal-penis transmission either, but all forms of transmission. 


I get a lot of questions about sexual desire, pleasure, and orgasm.  I thought I’d try compiling them all and answering them all at once.  [Disclaimer: I reference a lot of other articles in this post, and most of them talk about “women” and “female” like they’re the same thing, or like cis women are the only people reading the article.  Sorry.  I wish I could change the language, but the information is good so I still want you to have access to it.]
What is an orgasm?  What does it feel like?  How will I know that I’ve had one?  An orgasm is the cumulation of sexual pleasure and tension in the pelvic muscles that ends in a release of the tension.  Every single orgasm, even for the same person, will feel different.  This can be because of the person we’re with, the things we’re thinking about, how high or drunk or tired we are.  Some will be mind-blowing, some will be no big deal.  Read more here.Please read this article about how to figure out if you’ve had an orgasm.Learn about the body during a female orgasm.
Why can’t I orgasm during penetration?  Most vagina-owners cannot.  Kind of a bummer, right?  Especially since we’ve seen all of these movies and tv shows where there’s soft sexy bodies rubbing and thrusting and then WOW BOOM BAM KABLAM ORGASM MANIA.  Not so in real life.  Some people do orgasm vaginally, and that’s awesome.  But if it doesn’t happen for you, no stress.  It’s something you and your partner (or your vibrator) can work on, and if it doesn’t happen, that’s fine, since there are tons of other ways to orgasm.  A combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation works the best for most people.  That can be fingers on the clitoris plus penis in the vagina or vibrator in the vagina plus mouth on the clitoris or dildo in the vagina plus vibrator on the clitoris - the possibilities are endless.Try these techniques.
What is “squirting” or “female ejaculation”? Why can’t I do it? Squirting is the term for what happens during orgasm when people with vaginas release clear, non-odorous, non-urine fluid from the body.  It can happen at the height of the orgasm or before.    The Skene’s Glands open up either to tiny holes around the urethra (where pee comes out) or into the urethra itself.  That is often why it may feel like peeing during Squirting.  You can stimulate the Skene’s glands by inserting one or more fingers into the vagina with your palm facing the ceiling and stroking gently at 11 and 1 o’clock, if you imagine the opening of the vagina to be a clock.Read more here.7 Ways to know if you’re peeing or squirting.With Pleasure.
Why am I so dry during sex?  Is it normal to be dry during sex?  Vaginal lubrication during sex comes from stimulation and arousal.  If you’re not aroused, it is easy to be dry, which can lead to discomfort during penetration.  One suggestion is to get yourself more aroused before penetration either by orgasm through vibrator, oral sex, fingering etc before penetration, or by watching porn or reading erotic fiction.  You can also continue to use a vibrator during sex to help you continue to remain aroused.  Use lube.  Use lots and lots of lube.  There are always times when you’re not at 100% aroused but you still want to have sex, or maybe you’re aroused but you still want to be good to your vagina - use lube.  Lube is great, and it helps you to protect the fragile tissue that makes up the vagina.  I labored for years under the false assumption that having to use lube meant I wasn’t a good enough woman, or that I wasn’t a good enough vagina, or something.  I don’t know.  It meant I wasn’t good enough.  But then I realized how absolutely absurd that is!  Lube is fun, it’s sexy, it’s comfortable.  Use it all you like, no matter the situation.  People love to feel wet and to feel that their partner is wet.  But what if that’s not a problem?  I’m 100% aroused and I still dry out really quickly during sex?  Then maybe it’s time to check in with your provider.  There could be a few things going on, and one of them is that when people have vaginal infections like yeast infections or Bacterial Vaginosis, sex can be quite painful for them.  See if that’s going on, and whether it is or not, you can get more information about your body from your provider.
Should sex be painful?  No. No no no no no.  Sex should not be painful, unless you’re in a consensual BDSM relationship in which that is part of your sex play.  If it is painful (the first time or following times), stop.  You can say to your partner, “Wait, this is really uncomfortable right now.  I really want to have sex with you, so let’s do something to make this more comfortable.  How do you feel about going down on me/using a vibrator with me/talking dirty/role play/etc?”  Most of the time, your partner will be just as into it as you, since it is really sexy to make your partner feel good.  If your partner isn’t interested, you can either continue the conversation or say, “Ok, that’s fine.  I think I’m going to wait to have sex with you though, until it’s more comfortable for me.  Let’s try this again tomorrow.”  Or whatever is comfortable to you to say in that situation.More about consent.Consent is sexy.Demystifying Painful IntercourseHelp for guys who don’t want to have painful sex.
So let’s go over the things we’ve learned here.
Orgasms are different for everyone.  They take practice, relaxation, and fun.
Use lube.  Use it all the time.  Buy it in bulk.
Squirting is fun, it can happen for most people with practice.
Try not to get frustrated when things don’t work out right away in your sex life.  Give it time, open yourself up to pleasure.
Sex should not be painful.
Consent is sexy.
Ok friends, good forth and have fun, sexy, consensual sex!

Get ready for an awesome birth control series of the basic, necessary facts for each method by Molly!  She has just agreed to help me out, and she’s already making the most useful, interesting posts!  I’m so lucky to have her.
Click here to learn more about the IUD insertion process.

Join the Planned Parenthood SEXPERTS and your friends for dinner, fun, and honest discussions about sexual health. Learn how to deal with issues facing you and your peers, how to talk to your friends, parents, and partners about sex, and how to protect yourself. Attend all four days and you get an awesome swag bag and most Planned Parenthood services FREE for a year.

Speaking of my paypal account…

My little brother (Of whom I am a guardian, and is pretty much my child) has his fifth birthday in two weeks. Besides totally panicking that he’s going to be going in to kindergarten way too soon, I am panicking at the fact that I haven’t near enough of this planned and I don’t know where I’m going to get the money to put this on. If you’d like to help me make my little brother’s birthday enjoyable for him please think about donating!

I was thinking about doing commissions on cloth pads. If I can get at least a $10 donation (you can donate to my Paypal at the main site http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/) that should be enough for me to buy the supplies to get started making them. You can request how long/wide you want them or any colors, material you want them made of. The kind I make have a pocket to make it thicker and I’ll go ahead and give you a few slips of cloth (I use terry cloth) that you can add on heavy days. I’ll have to see how much the stuff to make it will cost me, how much it’ll cost to ship, and then like maybe 3 dollars just to pay me for time before I can give a price but if anyone’s interested I can make y’all cloth pads. I could also probably make menstrual friendly boxers/briefs.

Because I’ve had people comment that they’re interested in a certain product and then not ever buy it once I spend time and money making it, I’m going to say if you want to buy one now I’m not going to make them until I least $10 in my paypal just so I can get materials. Then send me a message to talk specifics of how you want it made.

Anyone interested?



Special design to hold a sanitary napkin in place. Therefore, no need to worry about it slipping out of place during menstruation. Has a swelling in the crotch as a fake male genitalia. Feel more comfortable in a gym or when you receive a massage.Here comes new underwear finally designed for FtM.
※ an artificial genital (included)
1.Pocket in the middle to insert artificial genital.
2.Elastic strap to hold sanitary napkin.
3.Sanitary can be firmly held. No slipping out.


OK NOW I KNOW HOW THIS WORKS. OMG. SO yes, you could definitely use cloth pads with this. and you could potentially use this same method for boxers and bigger briefs.

Conversation Starter of the Day


What is appropriate and healthy sexual/romantic/sensual experimentation for children? At what ages are what activities okay? What is the line between experimentation and inappropriate touching? What are your experiences either as a child or as a parent? What were your feelings about your experimentation as you got older? What would you tell child you if you could go back? What conversations do parents need to have with their children? 

Also, does anyone have any resources especially for parents on healthy child experimentation? I’m going to try to compile information for parents (also the kids in my care have started experimenting with kissing and we’d like some good resources)

Reblogging for the night crowd


Ya’ll need sailor moon

Hello tumblr!!

As a person who owns many bras but doesn’t really like to wear any of them, I thought I would put that excess to good use. So I’m doing a bra giveaway specifically for trans feminine folks! Yay!

All you have to do is be trans feminine and reblog this post to get a chance at having all seven of these cool bras shipped to you for free! (Sorry, but this will only be open to people who live in the US).

More info: you don’t have to be following me to enter, but my blog is pretty cool. I will only count reblogs as entries (mostly to keep things as simple as possible). And if you’re reblogging but not eligible to win, please say so with a caption or something. The bras themselves are either 36A or 34B and range from never worn to lightly used. All are in good condition!

If you have any questions, shoot me an ask! I’ll be accepting entries until August 5th. Good luck cuties!

Not trans feminine, reblogging for my followers.
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